Monday 22 September 2014

One of those days



Have you ever been in the company of your friends and realized you have been in a 'dream' for the last couple of months? Postponing stuff, more like procrastinating. Starting on a project(s) and quit halfway through. You do not really have a good explanation for quitting and the few reasons you come up with can't hold water. You therefore continue living the 'dream' and think to thyself that all shall work out.

Life seems to have stopped. It is moving and changing but all of a sudden, yours does not seem to be going through the changes or you simply do not want to notice them. Friends that used to be like sisters are no longer there. Moreover, when you try to reconnect its does not work out. What exactly is happening? Why is this 'dream' not ending? You had it all together at one point but it seems as though you are stuck in a dream that does not want to end.

You do not really know what went wrong but it feels as though not all is well. You think that someone will notice but that is not the case because those around you think you have it all held up together but that is not the case. At least individually you notice that something’s should change which is all that matters in this case.

Well, instead of being a pity party in the unending ‘dream’ you, need to get up and pick up the pieces of what and where you once were. Pick up from where you left of in your projects, be it in school, work or personal stuff. Rekindle old flames and friendships that should not die. Get a hobby, do something and let the ‘dream’ end.



4 comments:

  1. Goodness...I feel like you are speaking right from my mind! I can totally relate... Been stuck there for the longest time now, everything seems not to be moving forward and there's no concrete reason. Shift happens I guess. Its a slow fade. The only good thing with being at the bottom is that the only way to go is up. That is only if you dont choose to stay there..
    Lovely post...
    Keep writing

    http://halisee.wordpress.com/

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  2. Halisee, only way to go is up, no need for pity parties when awesome and amazing opportunities lie ahead. I will definitely keep writing.
    Your blog looks amazing. Keep writing.

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  3. goodstuff!!!!!!!

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